If you find out that your child has or may have taken drugs, it can be
frightening because of the potential effects. This can be due to your lack of
knowledge about drugs and not feeling confident about talking about them. Most
young people who experiment with drugs do not go on to use them on a permanent
basis. Therefore addiction, crime and death are not as usual as the stories in
the media can lead us to believe.
It is vitally important, however, that children are aware of the risks of using
drugs, alcohol and volatile substances. More young people experience problems
caused by too much drinking than through drug use.
Drug use among young people - how widespread is it?
Drugs are more widespread among children and young people than ever before.
Research shows that about one in twelve 12 year olds and one in three 14 year
olds have tried drugs. By the time they reach 16 years of age, two in every
five young people will have tried one type of drug or a mixture of drugs. These
figures apply across all ethnic groups, whilst drug use is increasing amongst
girls.
It is important to discuss drugs use early. Some parents/carers worry that
doing this encourages their child to use drugs. Avoiding talking about drugs
will not protect them. Children will be aware of drugs in some way before they
leave primary school. It is likely that at this early stage, children will be
more responsive to being told about the risks of drug use. Make sure you tell
your children about the risks. Accurate information and support will help them
decide what to do. It does not guarantee non-use but will increase the chance
of an informed choice.
Why do young people use drugs?
They are curious about them, they want to break the rules, to relax, to escape
reality, to cope with difficult situations or feelings, because they enjoy
them, because their friends do it.
How would I know?
There are many telltale signs, which include a young person who is panicky,
tense or drowsy, complaining of sickness, has impaired concentration, lack of
energy, depression, skin problems or aggression.
There may be a change in relationships with family and friends, a change in
behaviour, or a change in performance at school.
Other signs can involve changes in a financial situation and personal
possessions 'disappearing' and being sold.
Drug and alcohol misuse by parents
Drug and alcohol misuse by the adults in a household can seriously affect the
care and wellbeing of children. Advice can be obtained from The Bridge Project,
Tel. 01274 723863.
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